At weddings.At church.At family meetings.
And each time, your heart break a little more
If you are in this season, I see you.
The silent tears. The empty room you prepared. The names you already picked.
The pain of watching others hold what you are praying for.
Please read this slowly. You are not cursed. You are not less. And you are not alone.
WORDS OF CONFORT FOR YOU TODAY
1 God sees you. Hannah wept. Sarah waited. Elizabeth waited. God did not forget them and he has not forgotten you.
2 your Worth is not in your womb. You are a wife, a husband, a daughter, a son, a child of God - with or without children.
3 delay is not denial. What God has promised, he will bring to pass in his own time.
4 your marriage is still valuable. A home without kids can still be full of love, peace and purpose.
5 you are allowed to grieve. It is okay to cry. It is okay to be tired. God is close to the brokenhearted.
6 comparison is stealing your joy. Their testimony is not your deadline. Your miracle has its own date.
7 the pain will not kill you. It will refine you. And one day, you will confort someone else with the confort you are getting now.
7 LIFE REALITY ANSWERs ABOUT LACKING FRUIT OF THE WOMB.
1 children come from God, not by force.
Psalm 127:3 says children are heritage from the lord, that means the timing, the how and the who is in his hands. You can do treatment, prayers, and fasting- but the final say belong to God , Do not sin against God because you are in this season. Rest in that.
2 your life is worth more than motherhood and fatherhood.
I need you to hear this clearly: no child is worth your life. Depression, shame and what will people say have pushed too many good people to the edge. If those thoughts are in your mind right now, please talk to someone today. A pastor, a counselor, a trusted friend. Call a helpline.
You matter, your life matters, God still has purpose for you beyond this one prayer.
3 stop carrying shame that is not yours.
Infertility is a medical condition, sometimes is spiritual problem. It is not because you sinned. It is not because you did abortion 10 years ago. It is not because you did something. Release that lie.
4 protect your marriage in this season.
This is where many couple breake, blame, silence, pressure.
Choose each other, say it is us against the problem not me against you. Go to counseling together, pray together.
5 find purpose while you wait.
Some of the biggest ministries, business and impacts came from people in a waiting season. Mentor a child. Serve in church. Build something. Don't put your whole life on pause .
6 set boundaries with painful questions.
You can say " we are trusting God for our time. Please don't ask again, it hurts. True people will respect that.
7 keep hope, but also make a plan.
Pray, believe, fast, and also see a doctor, do tests. Consider options like adoption, fostering, IVF - whatever your faith and finance allow. Faith and wisdom work together.
A prayer for you.
Lord, I bring my brother and sister reading this to you. You know the night they cry. You know the empty spaces.
Wrap them in peace that passes all understanding, remove shame, remove suicidal thoughts. Replace it with hope. Remind them that they are loved, chosen and not forgotten.
If it is your will, bless them with the fruits of the womb and while they wait, fill their home with joy, purpose and peace. In Jesus name - Amen
Please listen my friend,
Lacking fruit of the womb is painful. But it is not the end of your story. I had of a family here, after 10 years of waiting, God bless them with triplet, and many more story like Sarah was 90, Hannah was mocked, Elizabeth was barren for years.
And God still wrote their testimony with their names in it.
Kids come from God and so does your answers.
You are loved, you are seen, keep going.
Even here in Nigeria, testimony are everywhere how God is blessing people with the fruits of the womb after 5 years, 10 years, 17 years of marriage.
Your own time must come. Have faith.
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